In this section, we share our personal experiences of pregnancy and infant loss.

Everyone’s story is unique, but you will also find a surprising number of similarities – whether the parents lost one baby or more; and whether the baby died due to miscarriage, stillbirth, neo natal death, or if the pregnancy was terminated for any reason.

Our common experience is that losing a baby is always hard: at whatever stage in the pregnancy or after birth, and for whatever reason:  “Grief is grief, loss is loss”.

Our hope in sharing these stories is to help all visitors to our website:

• To provide comfort to bereaved parents, by letting them identify with others, realizing they are actually not alone;
• To support family and friends, helping them to appreciate the depth of loss; and
• To help doctors, midwives, psychologists, etc – who are confronted by such tragedy in the course of their work, we hope these stories provide you with a useful resource

These are personal stories of tragedy and triumph; of hope and inspiration; of love and courage. We hope you find them useful.

If you wish to share your story on our website, please contact us.