For Family and Friends

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When someone loses a baby, it’s so hard to find the ‘right words’ to say. We want to show we care, but we don’t want to say anything that might be taken the wrong way.

This website is designed to help. For example, one category here – “What Can I Say?” – offers suggestions for what say to grieving parents. Every time you visit this website, you will find more information and updates. We hope you visit often.

You might also want to contact us. As a caring range of different people – both survivors of pregnancy and infant loss, as well as professionals – we draw upon a wealth of diverse knowledge to answer all of your questions.

Thank you for visiting our website. Caring family members and friends, like yourself, make it easier

A Fathers Story of Miscarriage

A father’s true story of miscarriage. A must read for bereaved fathers and mothers, their friends and family, and professionals

People May Not Understand

Our 3rd excerpt from a new e-book, written by a counsellor and life coach who has also lost a baby.

You are Not Going Crazy

Free E-Book: self help for pregnancy and infant loss. By a counsellor, life coach, writer and activist who has also lost a baby. This is the first excerpt of several we will be posting. 

Tips for Couples When Baby Dies

Tips on how to strengthen your relationship: from a couple married now for 52 years, and who lost 5 babies decades ago... (The third in a series of four related articles by Bridget)

Tips for the Dad When Baby Dies

Practical Tips from a father who lost more than one baby, and overcame the grief. The 2nd of 4 articles that help us understand each other’s grief

A Mothers Grief when Baby Dies

“My partner does not seem to understand how I’m feeling.” The first of 4 articles written to help us understand what’s going on for each other

The Cure for Grief

What's worked for me and others. So simple, and it doesn’t cost a thing!

Losing your Last Baby

Infertility or “secondary infertility” represents a double loss, when a baby dies

Rainbow Baby

What it's like to be pregnant again after losing a baby. Faith and anxiety, hope and doubt. A true story of love and courage.

Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome

Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS) has a high mortality rate for babies during pregnancy.  Here are the facts about TTTS